Being overwhelmed can help you find clarity

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I’ve been juggling a bunch of balls for quite some time now. Here’s a quote from a previous blog post I wrote in 2007: The Law of Gravity: as it applies to Entrepreneurialism:

I compare all my businesses/projects to balls. I continuously throw up as many balls in the air as I can. Right now, all the balls are different shapes, sizes, and colors—-but there’s probably about 6 of them right now. I’ve learned to accept (and to look forward to) the realization that most of the balls will fall, roll around on the floor, and then ultimately get squashed. As a positive, that’s when you no longer have to pay attention to them. But in your heart, you know that you gave them a chance to fly…no regrets on your part. Some balls, though, stay up for longer than you would expect. However, the longer they stay in the air, they gradually grow in size and begin to get heavier and thus, harder to manage along with the others.

Lately, I’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed about new “opportunities” that have come to me, that a year ago I would have jumped at—effectively adding them to juggling exercise. I’ve reached the point, it seems, where my mindset has shifted. I’ve now become a lot less interested in picking up new projects and more focused on the ones I’m already working on—those that I’ve grown exceptionally passionate about and have a high potential for sustained success. I still have a tremendous curiosity with the new projects that I’m teased with—and am in fact, admittedly addicted to curiosity. I would even make the bold statement that I’ve never met anyone more curious than myself. So, now as I’m refusing to allow myself to get wrapped up into these new ideas, I’ve realized that what has drawn me to them in the past has been my sheer curiosity of “what if” and perhaps my lack of full belief in my other projects.

Now, though, I’m confident and sure that the projects in front of me right now, are the ones I want to focus my time on. Yes, it stings a little bit to say, “no”, but perhaps the only way to reach massive success with one thing in life is to say no to countless others.

What balls are you juggling right now? Do you find yourself adding more and more to your collection? If so, maybe you should explore the true reason why. And if you’re not adding more and just focusing on one or two, then perhaps you’re a step ahead of me.

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  1. Kimber says:

    David,

    I recently have been thinking on the same thoughts. I have realized the only new balls I want to juggle are things I was already doing only now I am taking them on as a focus, rather than a thing I did without realizing. In other words, nothing truly new, just re prioritizing and refocusing on what I already do, it is freeing and exhilarating

  2. Dawn Green says:

    Hey David,

    Keep saying “no” when your heart isn’t in the work or “opportunity”. I found myself mired in projects that excited nobody and took a toll on mine and my staff’s mental health. You’ve reached a point when getting work for work’s sake doesn’t further your business. Good for you for recognizing it!

  3. davidhwalker says:

    Thanks for the comments Kimber & Dawn. @Dawn the tough thing is when you’re faced with having to turn down opportunities that sound like something that your heart WOULD be in and would be very exciting. There reaches a point when you can only handle so much though and taking on those projects would take away from your other projects your heart is already in.

  4. Zellmer says:

    Great post and insight. I’ve always believed that when you set your own boundaries, and show the universe what you DON’T want, it helps define what you DO want.

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